Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Disneyland 2008

We got back last night from our trip to Disneyland. This was our Christmas present to the boys this year...and to ourselves. It turned out to be the best present ever for all involved.

We left Saturday morning to make the drive across the desert. We were loaded down with games, DVDs, and music to keep the boys occupied, but mostly they just wanted to talk about Disneyland the whole time. I haven't made that drive since I was 17, and it was a lot easier than I remember. Pretty much a straight line to Disneyland, with the occasional wildcard detour thrown in from our friendly gps.

Our hotel was great. Big, with a full kitchen and three beds....and cheap. I like cheap. Especially when a full breakfast is included in the cheap. Mmmm...savings.

Our first day we made to the park about 1PM. The weather was perfect. We rode Star Tours first. Then we went and had lunch, much to Jake's disappointment. He wanted to ride more right away and let us know with his words and big droopy lower lip. As he barely ate, I noticed his loose tooth kind of wiggling a bit. I asked him if he wanted me to take it out for him, or if he wanted to do it himself. He tried first, but couldn't get a good grip. I grabbed a napkin, got a good grip, gave it a gentle squeeze and POP!, out came his first tooth. He went from all frowny, to all smiles...blood and all. He is now our little toofless wonder. What a guy.

After that whole scene, we were off and running. Jake had a new big guy stride and Brady was about to show us something about him too. We went on Matterhorn, Space Mountain, Nemo, Pooh, Buzz Lightyear, Pirates of the Caribbean, Indiana Jones, and Jungle Cruise. Jake and Mommy share a little problem with motion sickness so they'd had their fill for the day. Brady though...he couldn't wait for the next day, and the next ride...


At California Adventure, they have this crazy, sick, awesomely insane ride called The Tower of Terror. It's a 183 foot ride that looks like just an old outdated hotel, inside and out. There are cobwebs everywhere inside and it's dark and creepy. Besides that, there's not much too it. Except for the terrifying, blood curdling, vomit inducing ride at the top. This is what Brady wanted to ride. My five year old. My little guy. Since I am the only one that could take a ride like this, when he asked me, I had to say yes. I told him it would be scary, and let him watch a few rides from the outside, and how much people scream when they ride it...but he was undeterred. Ugh. We went inside, leaving Jake and Mommy at the entrance. I was hoping he would get scared at some point and turn back, but no such luck. I was freaking out on the inside, but I didn't dare show it to B. I was determined to let him have his fun, if this was his idea of fun. He was all excited the whole time. Not once did he even look concerned. The special effects before you even ride are just awesome. He got a kick out of the fake ghosts and spooky music. After our turn to buckle into the "elevator", he was just the picture of ready. The ride starts off nice, showing you some more cool affects, before revealing to you that you are about to possibly die on an amusement park ride, or at least feel like it. You see, it's not so much that the elevator drops from the top, you are actually pulled down by a cable at ungodly speeds and then lifts you back up and does it again over and over and random intervals. This causes your butt to go airborne, only held in by the thick seat belt. Holy Hell. Brady closed his eyes and held on for dear life. I held on to him and tried to keep from crying and puking. The ride isn't that long but it felt like 30 minutes of hell. When it stopped, Brady opened his eyes had started laughing like crazy. He had a single tear in his eye, and a huge smile on his. He kept saying, "My butt was in the air, I was floating!" over and over. The other riders, who were all grown adults all smiled and busted out laughing with him. Brady is brave beyond my ability, and I am not looking forward to his teenage years.

While me and B were busy trying to not crap our pants, Jake and Mommy found some other fun to get into. Sully from Monsters, Inc. was walking around and Jake became fast friends with him. He walked and held hands with the big guy all through the backlot until Sully had to go in for a break. Looking at Jake sometimes and how big he is, it is easy to think he is way older. But inside that huge body is sweet, tender hearted little fella who still likes him some animated characters come-to-life once in a while.

Later that day we found the best ride in the whole park, according to us. Grizzly River Run, is by far the most fun we all had together the whole time. Yes, it was cold. Yes, we got wet. But, we had dry clothes to change into, so that made it almost a logical idea. Jake was pretty apprehensive at first, but we rode with these four cool little kids who kept him laughing right up until the ride started it's drops and splashes. Then, it was all over with. Jake was hooked. We were all hooked. We rode it three times back to back, getting progressively more wet and laughing even more each time. Too cool, we need to make it back during warmer weather and just kill this thing all day long.

We had a great time the rest of the trip, even in the rain on Monday. We rode a few last rides and munched on churros with our ponchos on. On the way out of Disneyland, we stopped in to the little candy store on Main St. to get them a much-begged-for lollipop. When we walked in, I saw a bunch of TV cameras and lights, and behind them I could see some dude's unnaturally blond and spiky hair. There is only one guy on TV that looks like that, and his name is Guy Fieri. We like us some Guy Fieri in the this house. Even the boys. He was making some candy and chatting up the folks who work there, so look for it sometime on your tube in the near future. I took a quick little video to give you a taste.

After three days of Disney they boys were not ready to leave, none of were so there were a few longing looks back at the main gate and few tearful goodbyes. We'll be back sometime, but for now...I am still so pumped up from all the fun we had and I know the boys are too. I'll let the pictures do the rest of the talking. Merry Christmas boys.






















































Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Almost Made it on the Christmas Card This Year...

...but we went with a more loving one instead! :)
Now I just have to get them out in the mail!

John Walsh

About 3 years ago I stumbled across his book, Tears of Rage, his autobiography. I didn't want to read it. I only picked it up out of sheer curiosity and maybe a little boredom. I read the first page and was hooked. I was actually in a model home at the time, in the middle of job when I was working in Pest Control. I sat down on one of those overstuffed couches and took a break to read a little bit. I wasn't on a tight schedule that day, so time just kind of got away from me. Before I knew it, and hour or so had passed and I was crying.

I read until I couldn't take it anymore. I was literally sick to my stomach. What happened to his son, to his family...is just the worst possible scenario ever. I kept thinking of my own sons as I read it, and it was just too much to take. I got up and continued on with my day, trying to shake the bad feelings the book had brought up. It ended up taking many, many days to shake them loose.

So today, when I heard and saw that they had finally solved and were closing Adam's case...I was overjoyed for the man. Seeing the raw emotion come out, and hearing the relief in his voice left me crying again. What a legacy he has left in his son's name. He turned an impossible to deal with situation into something impossibly proactive and successful. To date, 1049 fugitives have been arrested because of what he chose to do in his grief to honor his son. Not small time criminals, these are bad, bad people who are no longer out roaming the streets. That is just awesome.

I have an ever growing list of role models in fatherhood I look up to and try and emulate. Right near the top is John Walsh.

Friday, December 12, 2008

Our routine

I get home early, early in the AM.

Tippy tap on the computer for a few minutes.

Watch some TV.

Drink a glass of water.

Kiss the boys.

Climb in to bed next to my wife.

Sleep for a bit.

The next thing I know, I hear this...

"Daddy, you have been sleeping forever...time to get up. I want to play Wii with you."

5 minutes later...

"Daddy it's been like an hour and you still aren't up! Let's go!"

I stumble out of bed, grab Brady, tickle him, smooch on him and tell him I love him.

I go downstairs and fix him his breakfast.

We watch some Disney channel together while we eat.

I go check stock prices/scores.

Brady finishes his breakfast and asks to play Wii.

I play with him for a while. He coaches me on the finer aspects of whatever game we are playing.

I drop out of whatever game we are playing to go take a shower.

I come down and get dressed and get him dressed.

We have a tickle fight while we get dressed.

We have a little lunch.

Off to school we go.

On the way he asks me 105 questions about 105 different things, or he asks to listen to music.

We get there and park the truck. He gets himself out of the truck and grabs his backpack.

We hold hands and walk into preschool to go sign him in.

On the two days a week I don't stay for the day, we give each other big kisses and hugs.

I tell him to make today the best day ever and that I will see him soon.

He gives me one last big squeeze and kiss and says , "I love you Daddy" and he then darts off to his buddies.

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With very slight variations, this is our routine. While it is certainly not perfect, I find a lot of joy in our little song and dance. B knows what I am gonna do and I know what he is gonna do. Next year I am going to miss the heck out of these special mornings with B. I know this because the costar of our little show is in kindergarten. Jake is off with Cindy long before we even start our day. It sucks, but such is life. There are a lot things that suck, but a lot more things that are fun if you make them fun. Me and B...we make it fun.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Monday, December 01, 2008

A Lot of Gingerbread House Fun!

Yesterday Poppy and Ma had all 9 grandchildren over to decorate gingerbread houses together! The oldest 8 cousins each got their own house to decorate, and Baby Hailey got to watch and get some ideas for next year. Grandma had a place at the table for each kid, with their own house, bowl of frosting, and bowls of candy. After everyone arrived, Poppy and Grandma took over and let all of the adults go run some errands, without having to drag the kids along! I stayed around to get some shots when they started and I came back to 8 BEAUTIFUL gingerbread houses, each one uniquely decorated, and 9 very happy cousins playing together. We all stayed for dinner and dessert...yum! After a little more playing, each cousin was given their annual Christmas ornament from Poppy and Ma before they left. Jake got his Indiana Jones ornament he had been hoping for, and Brady was thrilled to see the Batman ornament waiting for him. It was truly an incredible day for everyone. Thank you, Poppy and Ma, for spending so much time with us and creating such wonderful memories that will last a lifetime!

Ready to start decorating!

Getting the roof just right!

Look at that concentration!

Grandma lending a helping hand

Poppy getting in on the action

Look what we did!

Those faces say it all...thank you Poppy and Ma!
*If you look closely at Jake's, he spelled "LeBlanc" on his roof!

Hailey just taking it all in

Uncle Jarrod and the boys playing a little football

Yes, that is an Indiana Jones hat Jake is wearing!

Uncle Steve and B on the teeter-totter